Q: So I wrote to you a couple of weeks ago about asking a guy out - after I wrote you that I didn't see him until today. Got up the courage, asked him if he waned to get together for a coffee. He smiled at me awkwardly, told me he had a boyfriend, then said maybe as friend. I declined since that'd be a little weird for me. Anyways, thanks for the advice it really helped me and, even though I got turned down, I feel so much more confident now that I finally asked someone out. Love and blessings xx
I am so proud of you! Being courageous and proactive will always lead to better things-trust. And I also think that it was very adult of you to decline the friendship, because there is no sense in torturing yourself all semester by being friends with someone that you actually have a crush on-take it from me. I’ve tried that before, and it never made me that happy, so I commend you for putting your own happiness and well-being ahead of anything else. Like I always say, dating is a numbers thing, and for every 5 guys that turn you down, there will be 5 that you’ll end up hitting it off with, so just keep doing you, being courageous and confident, and you will meet someone cool in no time!